@Patrick Ossoski said
"Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law.
@UK93 said
"1 - Do Thelemites believe the Gods in Resh etc are actually Gods? Or are they seen as ascended masters / guides etc? When thinking about Nuit and Hadit, again are they seen as actual Gods or just a way we can perceptualise concepts of infinity and Universal consciousness? Could they be called whatever we like?"
Firstly:
Thelemites are a rather large group. You shouldn't look for answers in (non-existent) consensus among self-proclaimed Thelemites, rather you should study and meditate on the holy texts and the prophet's teachings. (Blessed be he!) Ultimately, you should draw your own conclusions. It's undesirable with regards as many of these concepts to say "it is so and not so." But for a start, simple answers can be given to pave the way to further understanding.
On Resh, the most useful perspective is that it is directed to one's Holy Guardian Angel or whatever you call your Lord. By identifying with many god-forms one can learn to see beyond the outer images and into the Unity which is described in the adoration.
Secondly:
It's not a common idea that the Gods of Resh are Masters etc, no. On the other hand, there's no issue in taking them as actual Gods, or (more or less) whatever. Just keep in mind the One Idea, the Holy Guardian Angel, above all.
As for Nuit and Hadit, they are basically the components of existence itself, which comes from the relationship between the two. It's immaterial how you describe them.
As for calling them whatever we like, sure, but with a certain reverence and respect. (Not because they are personal separate gods who might take offense, but because they represent core sacred ideas, our own sacredness.)
"2 - Where does all the talk of Baphomet come from? I hear more reference to Baphomet in Thelema than any other system, and my understanding is that he/she isn't a kind and loving entity. Is this a misconception?"
The main useful source on Baphomet for us is the holy book Liber A'ash.
The many references you may hear about Baphomet in θέλημα may not be because of his actual importance, but because of the ignorance of many people. Baphomet looks like a "dark" and "satanic" figure to the ignorant (most of them wouldn't be able to tell actual dark and satanic if it hit them on their noses), and the prophet and his teachings suffer a similar treatment. Far away be both of them from what those ignorant people claim.
With regards to your question about Baphomet's character, I say kind no, loving yes, and refer you to the mentioned holy book.
"3 - Similar to the above, there seem to be a lot of Thelemites who are into 'Satanism' etc, and this issue isn't one with the concept of Satanism (eg you have to believe in Christianity to be a Satanist) more one with the the fact some people seem to associate their Thelema with evil/dark magic and the like. A minority to be sure, but a larger minority in Thelema than elsewhere I think."
I understand what you're saying about these many self-proclaimed Thelemites, but what is the question here? There are many immature and ignorant people out there.
Note also that "Satanism" can have several distinct meanings. I suggest you just ignore the matter unless you have a strong interest in it.
"4 - Is Crowley really the be all and end all? I believe in not believing anything 'just because' but I do get the feeling a lot of people live or die by what he wrote with no room for movement."
I do not know what you mean by "be and end all." If you mean, vaguely, that Thelemites hold him in high status, that's generally correct. What that status means can vary between people.
I can't speak for anyone else. I live and would die by and for what was revealed to him. There's no greater possibility of movement than this.
"I can understand the 'CHaos Magic' approach to worshipping whatever works for you - how rigid is it in Thelema?"
See my first answer above. I believe that about covers it, but I'll also append a portion of a verse from that most holy of books, Liber Legis:
"The other images group around me to support me: let all be worshipped, for they shall cluster to exalt me. I am the visible object of worship [...]" (III:22)
These are my humble opinions. Feel free to clarify anything.
Love is the law, love under will."
Thank you for the very thorough and considered answer - you have given me a lot to think about and I need to go away and look at some of the things you have mentioned.
Your comments on Resh are particularly helpful as are the directions on where to read further about Baphomet.
I think the general consensus seems to be 'ignore the people who think they're Satanists' or 'ignore the people who think Thelemites are Satanists'!