Archetypes, complexes, Gods and spirits
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Not at all.
Yes, after people get the lesson, "Oh, this is all my stuff!", it is important to learn to see, "Hey, wait a minute, THAT one didn't come from me." That's just practical sorting and cataloging.
Ultimately, though, it doesn't matter... because it's ALL "My stuff." Otherwise, it can't hook you.
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@Pattana Gita said
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@Jim Eshelman said
"Not at all.Yes, after people get the lesson, "Oh, this is all my stuff!", it is important to learn to see, "Hey, wait a minute, THAT one didn't come from me." That's just practical sorting and cataloging.
Ultimately, though, it doesn't matter... because it's ALL "My stuff." Otherwise, it can't hook you."
There are other explanations for why projected identification content might hook a person that does not include it being 'my stuff'. Obedience, conformity, or (in cases of an immature psyche) it might be part of a pattern of psychological abuse from a parent - a sort of possession. If you put it all down as 'my stuff' then you undermine the ability of the psyche to reject (not identify with) content from abusive people."
Even if it has its roots in abuse, it's still "my stuff" in virtue of being inside of my head. Also, notice how differently people react to abuse (or any kind of trauma). Some people go through prolonged, repeated instances of abuse and recover relatively quickly, while other people have developed fully legitimate cases of PTSD that persisted for years from simply witnessing an assault on a complete stranger. It's clearly not the case that this can be explained simply by how resilient these people are, so we have to conclude that it's the relationship between the subject and the trauma that determines the nature and severity of the reaction. Thus, if some part of an abusive experience sticks with me, it ultimately has to be explained by the nature of my psyche, and simply rejecting that experience as "not mine" is to also reject whatever in me made that relationship possible.[Disclaimer: none of what I just said in any way removes the guilt from the abuser. The point is just that there would be no way of determining in advance how a particular abusive action will affect the survivor of the abuse, or at least not without intimate knowledge of the makeup of the survivor's psyche.]
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@Pattana Gita said
"There are other explanations for why projected identification content might hook a person that does not include it being 'my stuff'. Obedience, conformity, or (in cases of an immature psyche) it might be part of a pattern of psychological abuse from a parent - a sort of possession. If you put it all down as 'my stuff' then you undermine the ability of the psyche to reject (not identify with) content from abusive people."
I repeat: It doesn't "hook" unless it's something in us. There is nothing for it to grab hold of.
Now, patterns get formed and decisions made when we are very young, based on our limited resources; and then (unless we revisit and remap) those decisions stay with us the rest of our lives. (This is called "letting a 3-year-old make decisions for you.") But if these patterns or decisions are seriously at odds with the deeper nature, the psyche throws a fit! The issue always presents itself anew - over and over again throughout life. Each such "fit" is an opportunity to revisit and heal the pattern.
But that comes later. First you need to be able to recognize that you are looking into a mirror. Then you have to actually look and see what's there. A little later, you are equipped to redecide.
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@Pattana Gita said
"but why do you need to own/identify with all the content you see reflected in the mirror as 'my stuff'? You're making the mirror an impersonal thing and the content/reflection something personal, Jim. I don't get that... it seems the opposite way around to me. "
But it's exactly the case. We'd see ourselves if there were nothing but dancing lights in the mirror - because that's all we're capable of seeing. The fact that something objective is there does not mean that a person can connect with it. Navigation through life is like skrying with a crystal ball.
The important thing, though, is the tracing back. Eventually, one sees for oneself the underlying patterns which shape one's own psyche. But you can't trace it back until you find the individual threads that rise up as surges of reactive emotion and other strong-impact experiences.
I'm really surprised you aren't getting this. You're one person to whom I thought this would be obvious, familiar stuff. And we've only been talking about the outermost aspects of it. Some deeper aspects are discussed here: www.heruraha.net/viewtopic.php?f=20&t=6800
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@Faus said
"I am using it as the archetype of the integrated psyche, integrate the subconscious and the conscious mind. More in the sense that it is the force that takes the psyche towards wholeness. The “self-complex” would be the result of this action, the mind where the opposite are in a dynamic integration .
In both cases the HGA and the Self would not be psychological constructs, but something outside the psyche acting upon her (as far as I understand archetypes, they also are outside the psyche). Of course this overlap of definitions is happening because I am considering function."
I usually thing of complex and sort-of-autonomous things as tools or instruments of the HGA. Why sometimes it´s actived a particular complex? Why the next ocassion not? Then after you analize it, and you see patterns through consequences of why a complex could have been not actived in a particular ocassion, why in other yes, etc. I think it´s not exactly part of an usual rationalization mechanism, I find there is part of "truth" in some cases. I one is not fully skeptic and doen´t have that sort of faith, it would turn in a sort of or rationalistic thing without end, like a "there´s nothing more than this" thing.
As about change patterns, kill complexs and so on, I find in some particular cases fight against it could make itself an infinite loop, in part because it is not really a question of "I" against the "complex", it is a question of complexs against other complexs. I think it´s not so far thing of suppress things of you and your life (because, though their could be really fucked up for you, it still are your things), as for enriched it, make it more wide, doing things really different of what you are used to do. It will not free you from the complex etc, but will make you more experienced, having seen thing from others point of view, and the complex itself would be changed in consequence.
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@SmokingMonkey said
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I usually thing of complex and sort-of-autonomous things as tools or instruments of the HGA. Why sometimes it´s actived a particular complex? Why the next ocassion not? Then after you analize it, and you see patterns through consequences of why a complex could have been not actived in a particular ocassion, why in other yes, etc. I think it´s not exactly part of an usual rationalization mechanism, I find there is part of "truth" in some cases. I one is not fully skeptic and doen´t have that sort of faith, it would turn in a sort of or rationalistic thing without end, like a "there´s nothing more than this" thing.As about change patterns, kill complexs and so on, I find in some particular cases fight against it could make itself an infinite loop, in part because it is not really a question of "I" against the "complex", it is a question of complexs against other complexs. I think it´s not so far thing of suppress things of you and your life (because, though their could be really {******} up for you, it still are your things), as for enriched it, make it more wide, doing things really different of what you are used to do. It will not free you from the complex etc, but will make you more experienced, having seen thing from others point of view, and the complex itself would be changed in consequence."
I understand that complexes have some sort of function in communication, even more directly in yetsiratic level of communication. Like the particular antenna that can synchronize with a specific astral frequency, its inhabitants and Archetypes. So I would be more likely to say that they are our tools and that, sometimes, they can be used by the HGA and, on other moments they can be barriers.
I do not think that they should be destroyed or something, but purified and integrated. It seems that the very word “complex” has some nasty connotations, especially pathological ones. I do not see than as naturally pathological but they can become so in case of bad inner relationships.
Edit: I just perceived that I am using the word “complex” as a general label to any subconscious structure. It may be the wrong use but, knowing this probably will make it easier to understand what I am talking about.
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I have been seduced to try to formulate my take on what has been formulated as "projection" here.
Our life experiences (including possible past lives) shape the patterns of how we act, feel and experience.
The outside world on average influences us more than we influence the outside world, especially in the beginning of each life. Most deeply our first relationships, during the first say three to five years.
The patterns learned then are the only ways of interpreting or "scrying" the experiences we have and the reactions and actions we exhibit to them.
Deeper still, they are also the only way to interpret our-selves in the most fundamental way imaginable. We ourselves literally consist of our projections!
Except. What most here call the HGA, is that of us which for reasons that are too complicated to me wanting to go into currents in us which do not consist of what other people have put into us. These currents are real actions, not just reactions, even if these reactions might have been well-reflected very indirect reactions.
Not sure if the above is understandable, will wait for feedback to decide that.
Please note I am not talking about responsibility for these projections we and our experiences consist of completely except in case of - again, in terms usually used here on this board - far advanced adepts. I think also that Mr. Eshelman did not mean that - correct me if I'm wrong. There is already a very nice thread about hyper-responsibility that would be suited for this debate.
For a very interesting insight into the projection angle look at the original Abramelin Operation by Abraham von Worms, from a psychological perspective, what's going on in that process. It's all in there.
Looking back at what I just wrote I'm not sure I wrote something understandable. Hope I did
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Quick note, Faust: I think that use of "complex" is on-target. However, it might be misunderstood by people who only have encountered the word as meaning "pathology."
But such a structure (or complex) need not be pathological, of course.
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@Faus said
"I do not think that they should be destroyed or something, but purified and integrated. It seems that the very word “complex” has some nasty connotations, especially pathological ones. I do not see than as naturally pathological but they can become so in case of bad inner relationships.
Edit: I just perceived that I am using the word “complex” as a general label to any subconscious structure. It may be the wrong use but, knowing this probably will make it easier to understand what I am talking about."
Well I undestood complex as Jung did it, in the book he has about the subject. Not essencially different to as you used it, if I´m not wrong. And yep, the therm has gained bad reputation, as pathological or traumatic, but Jung himself said that a complex would not be necessarily bad and so on.
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@Jim Eshelman said
"Quick note, Faust: I think that use of "complex" is on-target. However, it might be misunderstood by people who only have encountered the word as meaning "pathology."
But such a structure (or complex) need not be pathological, of course."
Uep, I didn´t see your post in time. Yep, really, more than referring to the most common use that people do of the word, I was thinking in an alternative view of the treatment of complexes people want to change, though I really didn´t know what is the usual treatment for them in therapia or something.
