@Jim Eshelman said
"My first advice is, ignore what Nigris said. He'll really {****} you up on this one. ...."
did i? given how many of the things you wrote which were direct correlates to what i said, i'm confused. you said something about it being "not about cultishness". beyond this (might you elaborate?), could you explain how i erred in the above? I'd like to learn from this with greater depth of criticism. I'm not here to argue with you, just to understand your response. thank you kindly.