Chakras, sex and kundalini
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Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law.
I've been practicing avoiding ejaculation in order to have multiple orgasms just like women do. The technique(as i perform it) is as such: when you feel it coming, you continue, but do these things(at the same time, for as long as you might ejaculate) to have an orgasme without ejaculation:
.contract the pc muscle
.increase breathing
.keep "in" the "hara"
.contract the base of neck(at the back... thus relaxing the front)
.relax the base of head(keep "in" the jaw)Thus, the spine is straight, and the energy from the orgasm comes up and in all the body(a lot of it in the head...way way more than in normal orgasm) instead of concentrating in the penis and making it ejaculate. It works.
How such an orgasm is related to proper kundalini rising?
How the control "at will" of both could be related?
Also, from the technique i use, could you tell if i have any chakra unbalance?
I'll precise a little bit the effort required(for me) at each zone while performing the technique so an unbalance might appear more clearly:
.pc muscle requires strong contraction
.hara needs to be kept very "in" but it's also very easy to do it
.breathing hard is very easy
.base of neck requires strong contraction
.jaw needs to be kept slightly in and it's easy to do itAnd yeah, i need all 5 together(at least now) to make it work.
Also, do you have any advice on what to read and/or practice concerning kama sutra and/or taoist sex magick? How are these related to kundalini?
Love is the law, love under will.
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I don't think there's any specific relationship between orgasm patterns and kundalini phenomena.
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@Uni_Verse said
"Hm, never noted anything specific about head/jaw positioning.
Normally I "contract the pc muscle"
While maintaining posture and focus on drawing the energy up the spine as opposed to outward."This(jaw) and "hara" was partly due to a specific position...
Now i've tried others and it varies...
Most important is what you said... and breathing does help.
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Yeah, tucking in the jaw a bit, or rotating the jaw in-down-out-up, help activate the "pump" in the back of the head.
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Agree with Jim.
IMHO- in short. Achieve KCHGA first and then sex magick will come later. I have very good reason to say this, though I will not divulge the reasons now.
I also, would say that you have to raise the Kundalini proper first- through Illumination(KCHGA). Before, sex magick becomes a good tool.
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Kaspar's dead on regarding blocked chakras. If you want a seriously effective regimen for learning to work with prana, chakra balancing, even the devotional, biological roots of ceremonial magick and element work, check out Tantra Yoga Secrets by Mukunda Stiles - despite its kitschy name, this is the real stuff, based on the yoga sutras, tantras, etc. (His teacher was Muktananda).
Another good one for raising kundalini is Kundalini Tantra by Satyananda Saraswati of the Bihar school. And his massive text on kriya yoga is probably the best way to progress working solo.
Not trying to hawk these guys, haha; they've both seriously impacted my life and practice.
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One could definitely learn the same subject matter elsewhere. I responded to it because it was highly structured and the exercises do a clear job of tying the practical experiences to terminology. It's also surprisingly dense - the lessons can be skimmed and come off like new age-y bullshit, but if you read them meditatively it has a tendency of making deep conceptual connections about the technicalities of prana, the koshas, etc. I mean if someone's already done in-depth work with kundalini and can psychically navigate the chakras and layers of being skillfully, it'll come off as elementary. But I found it of great help in the later stages of emotional purification, dealing with karma, projections, and blockages (especially of the lower chakras), sensing the chakras and energy pathways at different levels of manifestation in myself, in others, and nature, and moving to the next steps.
It's also had tremendous impact on my ceremonial work, unlocking much more practical control and understanding over the technicalities of what happens energetically (a more tangible feel for astral geography for instance), and even the purposes of ritual, the polarity between effort and letting go, etc. This could be a natural ripening but it's definitely coincided with doing these particular exercises...
I'd recommend it, particularly to people on the solo path, as it seems to fill in some gaps that initiation into an order would provide.
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Sorry to be vague - was talking about mapping the elements to the physical chakra locations and the senses, linking this to the divine mother (Shakti, HGA) in really simple puja, learning how to direct intention and let go, etc. All of this had a direct bearing on ceremonial work, making it much more profound internally and energetically, like an expansion of the puja.
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@Avshalom Binyamin said
"Yeah, tucking in the jaw a bit, or rotating the jaw in-down-out-up, help activate the "pump" in the back of the head."
Basically, move your head up and down?
I am having some difficulty visualizing the process.@Q789 said
"IMHO- in short. Achieve KCHGA first and then sex magick will come later. I have very good reason to say this, though I will not divulge the reasons now."
I would agree, except in the case where a person is married or in a committed, long term relationship.
@NoxAquila said
"It occurs to me, in reading through this thread, that the direction to "spill not one drop" does not refer to the physical ejaculation, but to the energy within the act itself. Just a thought."
Make sure all trash goes in the proper receptacle
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More or less nodding, but with more of a circular motion (counterclockwise, if you were looking at a profile with the nose pointing right)
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@Uni_Verse said
"Make sure all trash goes in the proper receptacle
"Lol. I would certainly hope so. Although, a kid from basic comes to mind. Did his deed in the rack. The DI caught him, but said nothing to morning call. Couldn't find his "rag." So he grilled the kid. Finally, the truth: the kid rubbed it on his hands, and upper arms, like lotion....
