~smiles~ I've been sitting on that post a while now hehe ... thank you Baby ❤ you melt me every day xxx
Between riddled contradiction and harnessed duality there is something so amazingly pure in not just the way we interact with one another, but also in the attention it draws...
Its funny... i had three seperate hobbies...one learning about myself and fixing the glitches before they can be a problem..i've done this since being little.... two my love for mysticism and magick ...and three the unquestionable dirty deeds i wanted to experience in the bedroom....who knew they would all join up as one?!
In our practises we have had a lot of success with phsyical manifestation and whilst i understand the concept of iniation "of the school" or order etc... Ours happened and we didnt realise until maybe three more times in, and discussing parts we remembered, and a lot of signs that are presenting themselves to us.
I think one of the unconsidered main parts of BDSM "play" (As it can be soley play, you dont have to stretch out into every hour of the day, dabbling with it for an hour and half here and there i would assume would produce the same effects) Is that the operations are to ... melt and reshape reality depending on where your head is at. Some of the elements to bdsm can totally be incorperated as ways to enter one headspace and go through another... a speedy (quite thrilling) way to meditate, and possibly even skip a few of the normal steps in Rituals. (Esp preparation)
Flogging in itself has the quick ability to produce a "trance" ... it is painless, (depending on how you use it. you cant do physical damage with a flogger unless you're moving away from safe areas ie you wouldnt want to flog a ballsack or a nipple as hard as you could, as that WOULD be painfull lmao...you're not idiots you get the gyst) When flogged on the back, maybe kneeling down or even laying, you can feel the many suede strands drag over your skin and slide down your sides... the harder hits feel more like a distant "thud" than like you've been hit with a weapon. Obviously if you keep hitting the same area over and over (be carefull of hips and the fleshy parts of your shoulders when bunched up as this can sting a little) will cause discomfort. The sensations bring on your endorphins, your body's natural painkiller that spaces your head quite a bit..i dont think anybody really ~wants~ the flogging to end... (Very recently i gave Izzy this gift, to feel what it is like, but not as his dominant but as his slave... we dont "switch"...i got a LOT out of doing it also...)
Blindfolds heighten other senses, and "lock" you in your head (as oposed to opening your eyes to distance yourself from the "chatter"
I've spoken about "sub space" before... Some people beleive in sub space (which is pretty much trance) like i do... and others dont... like Izzy doesnt/didnt in the bdsm communitys sense. (he'd have to put up his own oppinion on that one as its been a while since we discussed it) I've spoken to many other subbies who love to tell how they get all jibberishy and/or just feel very soft and content... some compare it to a mental orgasm... some feel the need to be stroked and held until they "come down"... ive heard stories about subbies who have gone to play parties and have gone on demonstration, and how they wasnt allowed to go and drive home until those watching out for them were satisfied that the haze had lifted. This could just be perceived as the buzz.
The Buzz would be a combination of A) having realised a fantasy. B) Having been "Displayed" which could be interwoven with "on alter" in one aspect, and as another, actually "being" a demonstration i imagine would be very state altering... and of course the good ol exhibitionist rush lol...
I'd like to hear others thoughts on what they consider to be similarities of where bdsm can take you and where you go for Magick's sake. (And i'd like to hear from the Master's veiw point also (even my own hehe as he's sleepin right now) If there are any similarities between Mastering a person and Mastering "Magick"....and of course, speculation from all walks