Correct. There is misandry as much as misogyny. Plus, men and women both have the (likely) potential of a vulnerable, pathological relationship to their instincts in addition to any more positive relationship.
The concept among the Q'lippoth is this: Malkuth is The Bride. Therefore, the demonic form of Malkuth is The Demon Bride.
Whether you call her Lilith or something else is a more open topic of discussion. I think the thing to get over is the idea that all metaphysical beings of the same name are the same being. Mikhael archangel of the Sun is neither Mikhael angel of Mercury nor Mikhael archangel of Fire (at least: not necessarily the same archangel, and clearly the angel and archangel are not the same being). Samael the Q'lippothic ruler in Hod is not the same Samael that is elsewhere an angel of wisdom and power.
So, the debate of, "Was Adam's legendary first wife Lilith a bitch or a just an enlightened modern woman that the patriarchy put in place" isn't necessarily the same discussion as, "So whatabout calling Lilith q'lippothic?" I suspect these questions of gotten concatenated here to something like, "Hey, should we go along with calling Adam's first wife (who probably was just a self-responsible babe) Q'lippothic?"
Hillary Clinton is not Kate Clinton.